tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post3457333770847058829..comments2023-11-02T21:15:04.093+13:00Comments on Naturally Outspoken: Why???Juleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03404613584296500571noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post-80835561019020103892008-02-10T16:03:00.000+13:002008-02-10T16:03:00.000+13:00I tend not to get too depressed, but my sister bor...I tend not to get too depressed, but my sister born on the same day does...we are like two sides of a coin, not twins. She just delcares her depression and then rides it through... When you do come off the pills do it extremely gradually like a quarter a day less for some weeks...like tat or you get rebound and think the depression is because you are coming off the pills and that you need them ...<BR/><BR/>If you can find a doc who can test fro Kryptopyrroles ... many people of Celtic mainly descent have this and it is pure and simp[le an inability to process Zinc and B6... shows up in urine and is called the mauve factor... we have varying degrees of this in life but it can cause highs and melancholia and in some the levels are so far out of whack you end up with manic depression or other...my mum develloped this after dad was killed when we were all kids, she was so brave.much of this is a nutritional deficiency sometimes triggered by a shock or illness etc etc.but plain old zinc doesn't help..got to be high potency...<BR/><BR/>none of this may mean anything to you but worth a shot...take care...<BR/><BR/>it'll pass... mighn't seem like it at this time, but one day the birds will sing for you and the sun will shine. Don and I had dome absolutely awful arguements... two storng personalities...but we had more good stuff than bad... and the balance was more than struck...<BR/><BR/>sound awful old...sorry Jules. Hate to think you are sad.Middle Childhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09962830669606760640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post-63906974254673609902008-02-09T10:01:00.000+13:002008-02-09T10:01:00.000+13:00Hey Jules... I hope you are feeling a little bette...Hey Jules... I hope you are feeling a little better since you rant. Take time for yourself, things will get better. No more advice, I don't have a clue!Lyndahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06856015651957578791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post-16081987651955405792008-02-08T19:25:00.000+13:002008-02-08T19:25:00.000+13:00Hey honey .... I can't wait for you to come out th...Hey honey .... I can't wait for you to come out this way ... I will have the babies and you and Blair can have some quiet time ... You need that! Until then, Beck advised to have a couple of hours by yourself .... DO IT!! Leave the kids with Blair and have 'me' time! I do and I love it. <BR/><BR/>((big cyber hugs))**Mellisa**https://www.blogger.com/profile/02084717445181044717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post-66134304037529386602008-02-08T12:58:00.000+13:002008-02-08T12:58:00.000+13:00((HUGS)) babe, I hope you are feeling happier soon...((HUGS)) babe, I hope you are feeling happier soon. xoxoxKatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12314594684691084045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post-77707231025179990452008-02-08T08:24:00.000+13:002008-02-08T08:24:00.000+13:00Wondered if you've thought of herbal remedies, Vit...Wondered if you've thought of herbal remedies, Vit B etc to help you (being you - you probably are. So much good advice in the other comments - I can't really add anything helpful - but take care:-)Annehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17886198661034264422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post-55177768191152038802008-02-08T00:25:00.000+13:002008-02-08T00:25:00.000+13:00Jules...sounds to me like you got some grooten see...Jules...sounds to me like you got some grooten seeping into your diet still... I too used to go thru massive depressive episodes... I read somewhere that for gluten intollerant people that dont know it often feel so bad they think they are going mad.... suffer from depression etc etc...<BR/>My dr spent alot of time trying to get me on drugs for depression.. i told her I wouldnt take them....<BR/>All stemmed back to not knowing I was grooten intollerant...<BR/>may not be the problem.. but all sounds too familiar to me girl...<BR/>;o) luvs ya heaps.. Big hugs...Wanna_B_slimmerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12293337245411806885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post-91196888288890108362008-02-07T15:37:00.000+13:002008-02-07T15:37:00.000+13:00Oh Jules hon, I wish I could come 'round and just ...Oh Jules hon, I wish I could come 'round and just give you a great big hug. I go through periods where I am acutely depressed myself. You can get through this though. You're going through hell but keep on going, don't stop there for a picnic. The sandwiches are shit house I hear!<BR/><BR/>xMaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12221362768923638404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post-49097945401404855762008-02-07T15:24:00.000+13:002008-02-07T15:24:00.000+13:00Hey JulesI totally know what you mean. The only t...Hey Jules<BR/><BR/>I totally know what you mean. The only thing I can say is that 'this too shall pass'.<BR/><BR/>For me it helps to remember that NOTHING is permanent and our thoughts and moods change all the time. I tend to really attach myself to the low moods and really focus on them and keep trying to work out 'why, why, why???' when I have started to learn that they pass quicker if I just accept that its a dull time and it will pass. <BR/>Everything is balanced in the world, so the low point you are feeling now WILL be balanced by a high point that is just around the corner!<BR/><BR/>Breathe. Be kind to yourself. Give gratitude for the good in your life, and try to do this daily.<BR/><BR/>Thats my 2 cents worth.<BR/><BR/>We love you lots!!!! If you ever wanna email/text, Im here for ya.<BR/><BR/>xoMunzy https://www.blogger.com/profile/08246632091567827029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post-85714784480211712862008-02-07T14:41:00.000+13:002008-02-07T14:41:00.000+13:00Oh sweetheart! I wish I could get you on the piss ...Oh sweetheart! I wish I could get you on the piss and make you dance till your toes bleed. ((massive hugs))Stephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09486157834509821905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post-78381862441564590002008-02-07T12:16:00.000+13:002008-02-07T12:16:00.000+13:00I'm feeling the same right now. For obviously diff...I'm feeling the same right now. For obviously different reasons.<BR/><BR/>All I can say is get 2 hours for yourself. Relax and do something that will make you happy. <BR/><BR/>I got a lotta respect for you, you know that?The Candid Bandithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15738776589380953820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post-57932433457092954882008-02-07T08:03:00.000+13:002008-02-07T08:03:00.000+13:00I'm feeling pretty much the same as you right now,...I'm feeling pretty much the same as you right now, thanks to a vicious verbal attack that I really never saw coming & right on the eve of my fuckin 50th birthday, so you can imagine how shite I've felt. I've been taking stuff to get shot of the migraine the words caused & to try & sleep & the thought of taking extra & not bothering to wake up crossed my mind......but then I thought fukkit, I wanna learn to ride my bike one day! I haven't been drunk in 31yrs (saving my liver for Steph!) but the idea of getting absolutely ratarse seemed appealing, even if it was just for a moment :-)<BR/>*hugs for you Jules* Us wimmin are made of strong stuff right? :-)Jaynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06546956519928584352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post-79423506624785069982008-02-07T07:48:00.000+13:002008-02-07T07:48:00.000+13:00Jules baby...like all things this too will change....Jules baby...like all things this too will change. The Sun will begin to shine again for you. <BR/><BR/>Get better honey...I know you're strong, don't let it kick your ass. You and me...we are Amazons...we are the ones that kick ass. :D<BR/><BR/>Hugs for you Jules.<BR/><BR/>Ciao babes.Spiky Zora Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09283587481327552086noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post-63930672292720910402008-02-07T07:39:00.000+13:002008-02-07T07:39:00.000+13:00Rant on if it helps babe... and I hope it does.......Rant on if it helps babe... and I hope it does.... cos short of killing yourself (and we know you won't) it'a about all you can do... well hold on... you could slam some doors, punch a hole in the wall, smash a window... but take it from me THAT really doesn't help much either! Hang in there and just try and reassure Blair that all is good and he has NOTHING to worry about... I really feel for ya babe.Chris Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03599144462630400401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post-1143605556455028942008-02-07T07:20:00.000+13:002008-02-07T07:20:00.000+13:00I'm sorry you're having such a hard time at the mo...I'm sorry you're having such a hard time at the moment! Focus on the kids, focus on your new life in Australia and focus on yourself and doing what's needed to help you through this. And if ever you need to vent we're all here to listen! Take care!Taniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11314146110990484008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post-88418255068153614872008-02-07T01:22:00.000+13:002008-02-07T01:22:00.000+13:00I reckon that sadness, guilt, regret, sorrow and t...I reckon that sadness, guilt, regret, sorrow and the like are healthy emotions to have. I have those days where I wish things I'm ashamed to admit.<BR/><BR/>AND then, like every other mother on earth, I get up, make breaky and get on with it.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there, oh, and hey, keep an eye on your medical stuff. Maybe it's related?Ms Smackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02921397003809292438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6391934909084312296.post-78106209866580258452008-02-06T23:15:00.000+13:002008-02-06T23:15:00.000+13:00I'm not going to tell you to cheer up cos that's r...I'm not going to tell you to cheer up cos that's really fucken annoying. I reckon a good cry can't hurt (even if you are thinking evil thoughts -- everyone does at some point but you're right, how the hell does anyone even begin to justify something like that when you've got kids!<BR/><BR/>I cope with my depression now by turning my anger outward instead of inward - ie. I imagine killing other people. It's much more wholesome.Kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08699328937978331608noreply@blogger.com