The Year From Hell

I have been missing in action for quite a while.  Miss me anyone?

I have been facing the demons in my life and there was one that really needed some hard work to get rid of... he's gone now.

This year my relationship of 13 years ended.  My husband turned out to be less than the ideal man to be sharing my life and trust with. He cheated on me, broke unimaginable boundaries and emotionally scarred me for life. 

That is over. I have taken the year to look at the situation... fight my battles and make my life plans....

At the start of October I moved my children from North Canterbury to Tauranga... where I am forging a new path for us and have been accepted into the Bachelor of Nursing at Bay of Plenty Polytechnic, starting at the end of January next year.

My kids are settled and doing well.

I am facing each day as it comes and trying to find my way in life as a single mum of four, not an easy task by any stretch of the imagination.  There is still combined debt from the relationship, we had no home, no assets...

I have moved with $1000 in my pocket and, with the help of very great friends, have started to rebuild my life.  We don't have much but we have each other and we have a positive way forward without a narcissistic man controlling our lives.

I hope you all come back and join me on my new path....

And anyone interested in my health and fitness struggles and can come and join me at Destination Goddess where I am about to make some big changes....